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Forgive and set yourself free



'Forgetting what lies behind.' Philippians 3:13 ESV

The Bible says that the greater the offence, the greater the need to forgive your offender in order to go on with your life. Remember when you were growing up, how your parents would tell you to close the door? That's because in winter you were letting in the cold and in summer you were letting in the heat. Forgiveness shuts the door on your past! Paul, who martyred Christians before becoming one, writes, 'But one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching...to those things which are ahead' (Philippians 3:13 NKJV).

Only when you release your grip on the past can you secure your grip on the future. Forgetting is a decision, one you sometimes have to make, daily or even hourly. Bottom line: you need to forgive every time the issue that's hurting you rears its head (see Matthew 18:21-22). Complete healing can take months or years. When someone hurts you deeply, you must purpose in your heart to keep forgiving them until you're free from their influence. No matter what they took from you through abuse, abandonment, betrayal, manipulation or deceit, bitterness will take more!

Like making a rod for your own back, unforgiveness lets the person who hurt you keep doing it. So until the issue is resolved, you may have to get down on your knees every day and pray, 'Lord, by an act of my will, I forgive ________ and ask you to bless them. I'm turning them over to you and getting on with my life.' There's no shortcut - it's the only path to freedom!

Soulfood: 1 Chr 16-18, John 9:13-23, Ps 105:1-15, Pro 25:23-25

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